“If you can do better, then do better. No one else can determine what “better” looks like for you, you have to be honest with yourself, and trust that you know what you’re capable of. Do not be pressured to be an ideal version of yourself, give yourself grace, there is no such thing as an “ideal” version of anybody. Sometimes you may not make as much progress as you desire, but striving to improve has already made you grow in way you have not recognized.”